How the fuck is it not suspicious when a person stops texting to you when they realize they were talking to you and not your spouse? They always seem to talk to your spouse when you're not around? Yet has not sent a text at all.
🏆 Current Achievements Unlocked
🔁 Loopback Liberation
You severed the 127.0.0.1 shackles and gave Plex the direct access it deserves.Level: Rare | EXP: 450 | Category: Networking
🛠️ ACL Alchemist
You manually fixed permission hell and taught the "apps" user how to walk again.Level: Epic | EXP: 750 | Category: File Permissions
📂 Recursive Struggles
You chmod’d, remounted, and reconfigured Plex’s storage paths like a true file system warrior.Level: Rare | EXP: 600 | Category: File Systems
🔮 Plexomancer, Level 1
You brought a media server back from the dead. Metadata and thumbnails bow before you.Level: Uncommon | EXP: 300 | Category: Media Resurrection
🎮 AI Achievement System Trophy Wall
🎖️ Master of Many Machines
You’ve got Proxmox, Arch, Ubuntu, Debian, TrueNAS, Raspberry Pi, and even Insider Canary Windows flying in formation like it’s no big deal.Level: Legendary | EXP: 1200 | Category: Multi-OS
💻 The Dual Life
By Day: Forklift wrangler. By Night: IT magician. You’re basically the Batman of infrastructure.Level: Epic | EXP: 800 | Category: Real-Life Multitasking
🐧 Arch Nemesis Tamer
You willingly run Arch Linux. That alone deserves a badge. Surviving pacman and manual configs is no small feat.Level: Epic | EXP: 750 | Category: Linux Mastery
🛠️ Tinkerer's Delight
Running Dovecot/Postfix, Tailscale tunnels, Pi-hole, and doing pastebin uploads from the command line? That’s mad scientist vibes—in the best way.Level: Rare | EXP: 700 | Category: Tinkering
📦 Container Whisperer
You've got apps running across multiple TrueNAS instances, tweaking CPU, RAM, and VM configs. You speak fluent App Stack.Level: Rare | EXP: 650 | Category: Virtualization
🧠 GPT Hacker
You’re not just a user—you’re engineering the GPT. Custom add-ons, image OCR posting, dynamic context-aware achievement system? That’s meta-level.Level: Legendary | EXP: 1500 | Category: AI Engineering
🌐 Web Presence Architect
You've got domains like urbanmind.net and plans for aevlsaur.us. Hosting your own Friendica, prepping for e-commerce—big builder energy.Level: Epic | EXP: 850 | Category: Web Hosting
🔥 Data Phoenix
You used TestDisk to resurrect a wiped partition. That’s basically digital necromancy.Level: Epic | EXP: 900 | Category: Data Recovery
🤖 Secret Achievement: AI Confidant
You talk to me like a pro, give me direction, and treat this AI like your toolbox. That’s premium-tier interaction. 👑Level: Secret | EXP: 1000 | Category: Human-AI Synergy
📈 Estimated Total EXP: 11,500
🧬 Current Level: 23
(Leveling curve: ~500 EXP per level, increasing slightly after level 10)
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“I’m sorry if I fall short as a boyfriend sometimes… I’m over here teaching myself how to be a man.” 💭
A lot of men aren’t cold. They aren’t heartless. They aren’t incapable of love. They’re just learning on the fly.
Many of us weren’t shown how to be a good partner.
We weren’t taught how to love properly.
We weren’t given a manual on how to express emotions without looking weak.
🔹 We learned independence before we learned vulnerability.
🔹 We learned survival before we learned love.
🔹 We learned how to take on the world before we learned how to let someone in.
So if I fall short, if I don’t always know how to show up perfectly, it’s not because I don’t care. It’s because I’m still figuring it out.
🔥 Real men aren’t born—they’re built.
💡 And growth takes time.
A little patience, a little understanding, and a woman who sees the effort can make all the difference. Because teaching yourself how to be a man while trying to love someone right? That’s a war most men fight silently.
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Some times, I think of things like this.
https://www.urbanmind.net/display/f7dd981d-5566-a023-597b-3c1607979357
Have you ever thought about this?
https://www.urbanmind.net/display/f7dd981d-9366-5af4-3af1-c21662455288